What does an older woman want??
 

I am a bit confused, a couple of days ago I had lunch with this beautifull woman who works near where i do, this girl has it all and I mean she is beautifull, has a great sense of humor likes a lot of the same music I do likes to do a lot of the things I do and all that. There is only one problem, she is 36 years old, is married and has a son who is 3 years younger than me :shock:
We are going to a concert next week, when I asked her what her husband would say she replied with something along the lines of "the bastard hasn't touched me in years and will most likely be getting drunk with his wh0re" so needless to say her husband cheats on her.
i find myself really atracted to her, she has told me how cute I am and told me once I looked sexy playing my guitar wich was a bit weird for me since I was probably coming out of diapers when she was getting out of High School :roll:
i had always figured out she was a bit older maybe like 24 or something but I never thought she would be 36!!!
Anyways since you've read my ranting do you think she really want's some kind of affair with me or am I to paranoid and she's just looking for a friend??
I don't really know what to say, and I'm afraid that maybe if she came onto me I couln't be able to say no.
anyway thanx for reading my rant.

Re: What does an older woman want??
 

Affair, yes. Maybe even something longer. But I think it's up to you now.

Do what you want, but don't promise her the future. Are you ready to become a dad to a 3 year old?

Ice

I reckon you go for it. If what she says is correct, then her marriage is dead in the water and has been for years. If he's going around cheationg, then its obvious she isnt gonna mind doing the same. So, whatever happens, I cant see it doing much harm. She might just want a young toyboy for a couple of weeks to satisfy her needs. An older woman with a bit of experience isnt gonna do you any harm, just be carefull or aware of the fact that it might not turn out to be a long term thing. The age difference doesnt always matter, but such a gap may cause more problems than you can see at the moment.

It certainly looks to me like shes giving you the "come on" with her compliments towards you. Just ask her, what she wants from the your relationship and try and avoid looking like an idiot if she doesnt want anything more than friendship.

Older women want, exactly the same as what younger women want. Shes only human afterall, we all have our sexual needs. :)

she is playing with you, tries to get back on her husband and been seen with you is good for her ego.
Conclusion: she is using you!
If you want to get used...go ahead. If you can be hurt...quit.

That is what i think too. :)

I don't think she's "playing" with you but she apparently needs some fun in her life ! It's up to you if you want to spend some time with her, but i think it's quite dangerous. She's married and you're young to live something complicated like that.

If she is neglected by her husband, a man showing attention and obvious attraction will make her feel good about herself, and makes her feel that she's worth something after all. She probably wants an affair, at least I don't see her wanting anything long-term. But a side-dish, and especially when it comes from a younger guy, it's boosting her ego and making her realise that she's still attractive. If you want 'to be used', as Inge put it, go for it, but I wouldn't have high expectations of it being anything long-term.

I think all that needs to be said has been - you do get yourself into some predicaments don't you!? :shock: :D

I don't know what's wrong with me lately, I guess you guys are probably right, maybe she just wants a boy toy for a few weeks and tell you all the thruth i guess I wouldn't mind, the only thing that makes me really uncomfortable is her having a 16 year old son that could potentially kick my @ss.
But other than that, I think it should be fun.