5 reason for someone to love you...??
 

Give 5 reason for someone or anyone to love u ? :P

being the resident ego-tist I'll give it a bash.

I'm genuinely a nice guy most of the time ie if I'm being nice to you, it's because I mean it. i don't waste my time being nice to folk I can't be arsed with.

to bash an old chestnut. i'm funny. People laugh with me enough for me to ascern this as a fact.

Not necesarilly always beneficial to me but I tend ot be the "protector" of my group of friends so if anything bad is happening to someone I know I'm usually the one trying to solve it and I'm the exact same with anyone I go out with. being an intimidating cheeky cunt has it's benefits at times 8)

Look away kids: I'm a considerate lover. I won't let a session end without her.... use your imagination, even if i haven't.

I've never cheated on anyone in my life and I don't see that changing anytime soon.

They are hell of reason for someone to love you.... So any girls intrested in going out with Jim? :P

Yes, they sound like VERY good reasons :oops: :P

My reasons:
If I love you I'll do all I can to please you and you can use me in any way.
I can talk alot and I am a good listener.
I don't care much about money.
I am fairly easy going and I'm not fussy.
When you are finished with me and finds someone else you think is better I'll let you go and I won't keep bothering you (If I really love you that is :twisted: ).

I like ur last reason a lot :)

I like the first one better. :D

Ice

that's a good reason rather to cheat on you than to love you- but you seem to be a nice girl :wink:


now i think of some....

ok... ten mins have passed by now.... :roll:

1. ok- maybe this one: if i tell you that i love you i mean it- i may have fooled around with girls but i never told someone i didn't love that i do love her...

2. another one: if i love you, i love you. meaning it doesn't matter if you're a fan of a band i hate or love the books i detest, or vote for the party a when i vote for party b and i care little bout your looks

3. if you're bothered with something i try to help you

ok... that was a bad one but i can't really think of any more stuff....

4. i'll try to respect your friends even if i don't like them (the exception are male friends that clearly have a crush on you and try to seduce you :wink:)

5. i actually wanted to write something like: if i'm concerned about our relationship i'll tell you and try to fix it but due to recent happenings ifear it'd be a lie... :roll:

If I was 10 years younger and lived wherever he lives (assumably somewhere else than in Finland), hell yeah. :D

As for my own 5 reasons for someone to love me... Hmmmmm. Tough one, tough one indeed.

1. If I love you, I'm loyal and faithful.
2. If you love me and win my trust, "like a stiff drink when you need it, I'm good at being bad..." Or so I should hope anyway, haven't heard any complaints so far. Giving pleasure to the one I love is both fun and exciting (as in arousing).
3. I'm pretty laid-back and down-to-earth so you can be completely yourself in my company (i.e. no "keeping up appearances" needed when you're with me).

Well, three out of five is pretty good, I suppose. I could've written something about being funny or being "not-exactly-your-average" 30-year-old, but whether those are good things or bad things depends on the viewpoint, I guess.

Edit: After "sleeping on this" last nite, I came up with the following...

4. I'm gentle and tender and love to cuddle up in your arms.
5. I'm honest but I also aim at being diplomatic, meaning that I try not to insult anyone with my honesty. If I can't find a nice way to say something, I'd rather not say it at all.

I don't lie - ever. I might be wrong about something but I won't tell you a lie about it. Some people don't consider this an asset by the way.

I have absolutely no sense of bigotry. As far as I'm concerned people are people.

I am a hard worker and always finish what I start - ontime.

I have a good sense of humour and I think it keeps me sane all the way through life's little ups and downs.

I always try to be fair. I will admit I'm wrong, even when it's not always easy to do and I don't hold a grudge. If an argument is over then it's over.

Hmm - I wonder if any of those qualities would make someone love another person though. Or do we just fall in love with the "whole package"?

Kathleen