:? if its none of our business whether he cheats on his wife or not then WHY has Jon told the press and public over and over again that he has cheated on his wife?

I wish he would shut up about his cheating . It makes him look like an ass by putting his wife down admitting to cheating , ITS A PRIVATE THING BETWEEN HIM AND DOT SO WHY THE HELL DOESNT HE KEEP IT PRIVATE :?

Dawn

where and when did he admit cheating on his wife?

Actually, Dawn, he's never said, "I've cheated on my wife." He's been asked in British newspapers about it and the stock response is "I'm not a saint," or "I've made mistakes." He's also never lead anyone to believe that he consistely cheats on her or that he has cheated on her in the last decade. In fact, has denied cheating on her on radio/TV interviews with Howard Stern consistently since 1993. I think he probably did cheat on her when they were first married, but has been faithful for years. Personally, I believe what I see/hear him say in his own words moreso than what I read. Just because the British press prints the same quote every year and half doesn't mean he says it every time he sits down with an interviewer in England. The written press is a funny thing. They edit the way they want and they do use old quotes if it suits them or they make things up if it suits them. To illustrate, I have an interview Jon did with Kerrang in both print and the video tape of the interview. He never used major swear words in the video, but the print version had him dropping f-bombs every few sentences. Why? It's tailored to the audience and the audience of a rock magazine expects the rockers to curse a lot. Anyone who believes everything they read, good or bad, is very naive and putting way too much faith in the press. If I don't hear it with my own two ears out of Jon's mouth, I take it with a shaker of salt.

Now, just to clarify... I'm not saying I don't think Jon curses. I know he does because I've heard that in plenty of interviews too. I'm saying that in one specific interview he didn't but the printed interview was misleading and if the press will be misleading over something as silly as curse words, then why believe they wouldn't be misleading over substantial subjects? I'm not saying I think he's been 100% faithful to his wife for 16 years. I do believe he's been faithful to her for most of those years though because what he really says that you can see and hear from HIS mouth has been consistent. Why in all the inteviews he does all over the world would he maintains one story for the printed press and another for video/radio? And, yes, I do have pretty much every video interview the man has done at least through the Crush tour, so I have a pretty good basis for what I say when I talk about interviews. But, hey, maybe that one where he says he cheats on her is the one that I haven't got in my collection.

The truth is, none of us know and we choose which sources we believe. Until I see him say it, I'm skeptical based on the things I have seen him say. But, I honestly don't care. It's his life and his marriage, so it's between her and him. If he said tomorrow that he cheats on her and has 16 illegitimate children, I'll still buy his music. Hell... I still buy it even though he's a Democrat. :lol:

Becky

I agree Becky , he does say these words I'm not a saint," or "I've made mistakes."most of the time in answer to the question do you cheat on your wife/how do you stay faithful etc, the answer of Im no saint and Ive made mistakes is a polite way of saying yes Ive cheated.

The worst interview I have ever seen him do re cheating was the Chris Evans one , many years ago. Dot was there in the crowd and Chris was talking about Jons marriage to Dot and their long term relationship and how does he manage to stay married/faithful. Jons reply was something along the lines of "I didnt know if I left the USA that I was still considered married "!!!!!!!!! and then followed it up with Ive made mistakes /saint line. Chris looked at Dot and said something like is he always like this, She just nodded !!!!!!!! Chris said how do you put up with him.

I just cant believe how disrespectful some of Jons comments have been towards their relationship. He has got better now thankfully , stating Dot is his muse etc , its about time he publicily started showing her some respect , especially now the kids are getting older.

Dawn

Dawn, I have that interview. It was a freaking joke! Contrary to popular belief, Jon does have a sense of humor and obviously Dorothea does too.

Becky

Even written sounds like one. Somhow I don't see him discussing how his marriage works on TV :roll:

Plus, if it's okay for Dorothea, why should we consider Jon's attitude "disrespectful towards their relationship"? Okay, so it's not the way regular marriages work but that doesn't mean it doesn't work for them and she's not okay with it or she hasn't cheated while he was. It's only them that should consider it respectful or disrespectful. And Dorothea seems quite okay with how things stand. Whatever floats your boat :)

yes keeper, but to sin against your neighbour is to sin against god, remember?

*smacks forehead*

Must be a sin too to forget about sins :lol:

just becaus it works for them, doesn't mean it isn't completely disrespectful towards his wife.

Plenty of marriages work, that doesn't mean one or both are treated with any sort of decency.

Of course Jon made these comments in an apparent joking manner, oh am I married when I leave the states ?, oh Im no saint I make mistakes.. yeah really funny !!!!!!!!! :roll:

Still disrespectful .

Dawn

If Dorothea doesn't have a problem with it, it's not up to you to say it's disrespectful. It's only disrespectful if she thinks so. Remember, Jon has also said she joked about making a video with Richard Gere since he got to make a video with Cindy Crawford. And he's also said that she's very secure in their marriage. Didn't SHE say in People that women may crawl over her to get to Jon, but it's not something she gets upset by. Who are you to judge their relationship. It's lasted for 25 years. They're doing something right.

Yes it is disrespectful and remember she will not express her real feeling towards it.. so u don't really know what she really feel inside... And about making video... its part of his job and that doesn;t mean anything IMO

yep!

I really Really Really hope Jon cheated on his wife.

he'd be a rather pathetic excuse for a man if he didn't....

you got that right

:)

No one is judging their relationdship , we are judging the comments Jon has chosen to make public regarding his cheating . Loads of men cheat and have great relationshipw with their wife. Lots of wives know their husbands cheat and accept it, however most husband wouldnt admit to cheating on their wife to the world !

Dawn

Most men aren't in the public eye so if they went to the press and said they'd cheated on their wife no-one would care, but because Jon is a celebrity people (for some stupid reason) care about what he does.

If he hadn't said it then woman would have come forward to sell stories to the press about it, making it more embarassing for him and his family, but since he's admitted it no-one would care if someone came forward.

now u know Mr Anderson the reason why no one has come forward is because Jon gets them to sign water tight contracts everytime someone comes within 5 ft of him :D

Dawn

Howard Stern had a chick on one day that claimed she slept with JBJ :)

So if I was stood 4ft 11in from him he'd somehow reach over a contract for me to sign, difficult even for me to reach at such distance? :P

As I said though the press is the only reason he'd have said it, so as not to have dirty exposes in magazines that would upset his family.

I'm sure his wife knows what went/goes on backstage at shows and he'd probably confessed to her before he did to the press, it's probably just better for him to say it and get it over with than women coming forward giving details about everything.

Hell !!!! I claim I slept with JBJ. I did! really!

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Hell !!!! I claim I slept with JBJ. I did! really![/quote

your story couldn't nearly be as juicy as hers 8)

The "WORST" comment you could come up with was obviously a joke to (almost) anyone who saw that interview. Or, I suppose you really think Jon takes a blow torch to his furniture at home too? And I guess every time a comedian takes a crack at his marriage, he's being disrespectful?

Becky

hasnt he been asked this question since day dot.. well I remember it in every single interview ever. He always says he hasnt been a saint etc etc.

Its not really news worth speculating over


on the care factor it rates a zero


Kat

the point Im trying to make is he is always coming up with the comments constantly, Im no saint, I make mistakes etc. I feel saying ok Jon we all know u r no saint u have been telling us for years, your wife knows your no saint, now shut up, Im sure your kids dont want to hear you telling the world your no saint to them and their mother!

Dawn

it was the Stern show !!!!!!! :lol:

Dawn

But what can he do if people keep asking him that question? The best way out is mixing his answer with a joke, I think. It's not his fault that some people seem to be more interested in his personal life than anything else :?

Hey I just noticed Becky was posting under my id, while we were on vacation. Just so everyone knows...I've only posted once here. I haven't read any posts, including hers.

Yvette

Yeah, I accidentally posted under your name and didn't realize it until I had sent it. So I just read from that point instead of logging you out so I could post with my ID.

Becky

:rolleyes:

Not my business or the business of anybody else who is not in this relationship.

An article from 2013 was brought up to bring back a discussion from 2005?

Goto 8:20

Guilty look there Jon!

https://youtu.be/7m0SzCloZyc

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A video from 1993 was brought up to bring back a discussion from 2005?

Why are you repeating yourself?? Odd one.

Is this against the rules?

It's a joke.


I don't know anything about rules... but they are problably jokes too

Nikki Sixx tells a story about him, JBJ, drugs, beer and prostitutes in a hotel room back in the 80s