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Alphavictim 03-06-2019 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by steel_horse75 (Post 1251360)
Nikki Sixx tells a story about him, JBJ, drugs, beer and prostitutes in a hotel room back in the 80s

So Jon had sex with people not named Dorothea in the 80s? Geee.

Pattie G 03-21-2021 03:31 PM

Jon Bon Jovi cheating
 
NO !!!!! Jon never said he cheated. He only said he is no saint. He has also said Temptations out there. He has never gone
that far and he never will. He said he has
done a lot of stuff but not that.I do believe
he is telling the truth. They were broken up
for a few years. But he decided she was the
one and always will be the only one for him.

BJFan99 03-21-2021 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Pattie G (Post 1272952)
NO !!!!! Jon never said he cheated. He only said he is no saint. He has also said Temptations out there. He has never gone
that far and he never will. He said he has
done a lot of stuff but not that.I do believe
he is telling the truth. They were broken up
for a few years. But he decided she was the
one and always will be the only one for him.

I'm sorry to burst your bubble about Jon being a perfect husband, but he has indeed cheated on Dorothea several times. Bed Of Roses was even written out of the guilt he felt after having spent a night with another woman.

Eveline 03-22-2021 12:01 AM

And to think some people propose during that song..
ridiculous 🙄

BJFan99 03-22-2021 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Eveline (Post 1272955)
And to think some people propose during that song..
ridiculous 🙄

You beat me to it :D

QUceK1WV8 03-24-2021 08:41 PM

A rock star cheating his wife, surely not..

lol seriously. Marriage and drugs and rock and roll?

james_d 03-24-2021 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Eveline (Post 1272955)
And to think some people propose during that song..
ridiculous 🙄

Almost as if most people who like the song aren't like us who tend to over analyse anything to do with the band lol

Captain_jovi 03-24-2021 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by james_d (Post 1272974)
Almost as if most people who like the song aren't like us who tend to over analyse anything to do with the band lol

I have friends that are casual fans that REFUSE to go to shows with me because they know how I'll get. They just want to hear the songs they love and they'll have a good time.

james_d 03-25-2021 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Captain_jovi (Post 1272975)
I have friends that are casual fans that REFUSE to go to shows with me because they know how I'll get. They just want to hear the songs they love and they'll have a good time.

Exactly. More people need to remember that last line.

Santa Fe 03-25-2021 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Keeper (Post 550452)
Not that I care one way or the other but of course he did. He's no angel :roll:

Most of them do it

liljovi93 03-25-2021 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Captain_jovi (Post 1272975)
I have friends that are casual fans that REFUSE to go to shows with me because they know how I'll get. They just want to hear the songs they love and they'll have a good time.

I'm a bit like that. I'm the worst critic at times but I'll express any negativity after a gig, as a conversation. Not while it's happening because it could ruin someone else's experience which I don't like the idea of doing.

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faith1985 03-25-2021 07:47 PM

Can we just stop talking about a man cheating? Like:it is none of our business since we are not in their shoes and I guess hardly anybody knows them personally If I had sex with a married man and there are very few reasons I would even think about it, I'd never let it get out mostly I don't want his wife to be hurt. So can we close the topic?

BJFan99 03-27-2021 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1272990)
Can we just stop talking about a man cheating? Like:it is none of our business since we are not in their shoes and I guess hardly anybody knows them personally If I had sex with a married man and there are very few reasons I would even think about it, I'd never let it get out mostly I don't want his wife to be hurt. So can we close the topic?

Jon has pretty openly admitted that he's cheated on Dorothea in the past, but he's most likely very loyal to her by now and they're living a happy life together. I don't think this thread is hurting anyone in 2021 anymore.

Supersonic 03-27-2021 04:32 PM

Aloha !

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1272990)
Can we just stop talking about a man cheating? Like:it is none of our business since we are not in their shoes and I guess hardly anybody knows them personally If I had sex with a married man and there are very few reasons I would even think about it, I'd never let it get out mostly I don't want his wife to be hurt. So can we close the topic?

Oh come on now you've done a 180 on the man so is it a recent affair then?

Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan

faith1985 03-28-2021 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Supersonic (Post 1273007)
Aloha !



Oh come on now you've done a 180 on the man so is it a recent affair then?

Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan

I don't have affairs. I am either something serious or nothing at all if it comes to romantic love
And the question was if we think Jon has cheated on his wife. I hate their propaganda when it comes to their marriage, because I hate propaganda but I try not to discuss a person's faithfulness on a message board.
And I was more speaking as a woman in general: I think it is 'strange' to sleep with a married man just 'for fun' which the question implies. And if someone wants gossip, there are interviews out there about Jon cheating or not cheating, I am sure about that.

faith1985 03-28-2021 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by BJFan99 (Post 1273005)
Jon has pretty openly admitted that he's cheated on Dorothea in the past, but he's most likely very loyal to her by now and they're living a happy life together. I don't think this thread is hurting anyone in 2021 anymore.

Look, your best friends could have a crappy or a wonderful relationship. Most of the time we don't know what is going on and UNLESS it concerns us, I think it should not be a topic to discuss. And since I don't know Dorothea (met her once and don't want to discuss what I thought) I don't know if it would hurt her or not. All I know is that the talk about their relationship can only be shallow since we are not in it. But I am amazed by how shallow people are. See a people magazine cover: ahhhh best couple ever.

james_d 03-28-2021 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1273018)
Look, your best friends could have a crappy or a wonderful relationship. Most of the time we don't know what is going on and UNLESS it concerns us, I think it should not be a topic to discuss. And since I don't know Dorothea (met her once and don't want to discuss what I thought) I don't know if it would hurt her or not. All I know is that the talk about their relationship can only be shallow since we are not in it. But I am amazed by how shallow people are. See a people magazine cover: ahhhh best couple ever.

I'm with you on this one. An inappropriate and unneeded discussion.

Thinny 03-28-2021 06:49 PM

Honestly, I don't see how it's anymore disrepectful than talking about Richie's alleged addictions, for instance. A lot of the comments on that may have really upset Ava, for one...so how come that seems to be ok?

At the end of the day, these guys are public figures, so people publicly discussing their private lives is to be expected, good and bad.

It's not a topc that interests me at all, but Jon has talked about it openly in the past, and I'm sure Dorethea (or Ava) really doesn't care what a bunch of fans on a message board think. Dorothea doesn't strike me as the insecure type and I'm sure any of Jon's past indescretions have been dealt with as far as their relationship goes...

faith1985 03-28-2021 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Thinny (Post 1273020)
Honestly, I don't see how it's anymore disrepectful than talking about Richie's alleged addictions, for instance. A lot of the comments on that may have really upset Ava, for one...so how come that seems to be ok?

At the end of the day, these guys are public figures, so people publicly discussing their private lives is to be expected, good and bad.

It's not a topc that interests me at all, but Jon has talked about it openly in the past, and I'm sure Dorethea (or Ava) really doesn't care what a bunch of fans on a message board think. Dorothea doesn't strike me as the insecure type and I'm sure any of Jon's past indescretions have been dealt with as far as their relationship goes...


Dorothea isn't a public figure, but her husband is.
And yes, it is inappropriate for me to talk about Richie's addiction in public as well

Thinny 03-29-2021 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1273022)
Dorothea isn't a public figure, but her husband is.

But we are talking about Jon's infidelities not hers. And to be fair, she married probably the biggest rock star in the world at the time, so yeah she kinda knew what she was signing up for.

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1273022)
And yes, it is inappropriate for me to talk about Richie's addiction in public as well

Doesn't seem that many share that view.

Walleris 03-29-2021 09:28 AM

So when are we bumping one of the Jon's hair threads next?

faith1985 03-29-2021 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Walleris (Post 1273024)
So when are we bumping one of the Jon's hair threads next?


Please.. that woukd be more fun

faith1985 03-29-2021 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Thinny (Post 1273023)
But we are talking about Jon's infidelities not hers. And to be fair, she married probably the biggest rock star in the world at the time, so yeah she kinda knew what she was signing up for.




Doesn't seem that many share that view.


She definitely said things that show she does not consider his rock star life as part of hers. So even if she knew she does not care. (even if his life brought her wealth and kids and financial securities and her charity work)
And I already saying more than I want to. But Jon never said anything negative about her in public and for that he is a hero in my book while she said in public she doesn't care about his rock star life.

polevka 03-29-2021 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1273027)
She definitely said things that show she does not consider his rock star life as part of hers. So even if she knew she does not care. (even if his life brought her wealth and kids and financial securities and her charity work)
And I already saying more than I want to. But Jon never said anything negative about her in public and for that he is a hero in my book while she said in public she doesn't care about his rock star life.

"she does not consider his rock star life as part of hers"

I'd say this is a healthy attitude.

But you imply that this is saying something negative about Jon which I don't get at all.

Alphavictim 03-29-2021 02:22 PM

No one's saying anything negative about Dorothea here. It's not like people on here are cheering on Jon for cheating on the awful mother of his children. Not at all. This is simply about him.

And her saying that she doesn't care for his life is... not judging, either? I'm with polevka on that one.

Nige 03-29-2021 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Walleris (Post 1273024)
So when are we bumping one of the Jon's hair threads next?

Natural grey, or does he dye it?

Santa Fe 03-29-2021 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Nige (Post 1273030)
Natural grey, or does he dye it?

Well , he should dye it :)

Eveline 03-29-2021 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Santa Fe (Post 1273033)
Well , he should dye it :)

Ditto. But then his natural hair matches his boring personality these days so maybe he should let it be :D

faith1985 03-30-2021 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by polevka (Post 1273028)
"she does not consider his rock star life as part of hers"

I'd say this is a healthy attitude.

But you imply that this is saying something negative about Jon which I don't get at all.

Actually I am not implying anythng because I don't know her.

faith1985 03-30-2021 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Alphavictim (Post 1273029)
No one's saying anything negative about Dorothea here. It's not like people on here are cheering on Jon for cheating on the awful mother of his children. Not at all. This is simply about him.

And her saying that she doesn't care for his life is... not judging, either? I'm with polevka on that one.

Well if my husband says her work is part of his than his work should be part of her's too. Again, not judging just saying what I think is fair.

YOVANAfromPeru 03-30-2021 06:26 AM

Since there's nothing else what to talk about right now... Let's say, there is infidelity with thought, there are infidelity dreams, there are good friends, there is a lot of crazy fans, there are stewardesses, there are singers, there are prostitutes, there are VERY private prostitutes, there is phone, there is webcam, there are e-mails, there are magazines. Also, he was an actor and kissed a lot of women, reporters, singers, AND fans!
So I'd say yes.
However, he said this in 2007: "I've not been a saint. I've had my lapses. / I've been in one of the biggest rock bands in the world for 25 years, and I'm not a saint, and I have not been a saint. / I don't have a mistress on the side or another family across town. You're never going to read that story about me. I have no regard for that whole lifestyle."

polevka 03-30-2021 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by faith1985 (Post 1273041)
Well if my husband says her work is part of his than his work should be part of her's too. Again, not judging just saying what I think is fair.

As far as you mentioned she doesn't care for his rock star life. I think you make the mistake of taking "rock star life" as his work. Jon is a songwriter and singer and also head of a business in music. I haven't read anything about that she doesn't care about these things.


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